Women generally prefer romance. Loves pranks. Claws are their nature. They love clear expressions of love.
Home is the realm of women. |
Advice given to the son of Imam Ahmad bin Hanbal (RA) about his wife:
Women generally prefer romance. Loves pranks. Claws are their nature. They love clear expressions of love. You will never hesitate to reveal these things to your wife in private. I will tell him more, my love. If you are careful about these things, you will see that, after a few days, an invisible curtain has hung between you and him. After that, day by day, the relationship with each other will start to dry up. Love will find a way to escape through the window.
Women don't like harsh, grumpy, or rough men at all. If you have something like that, shake it off immediately. Because they like civil, polite, and generous men. You acquire qualities to win his love and reassure him.
Remember this very well: you are clean, beautiful, neat, and tidy like your wife.
Want to look beautiful and fragrant? Your wife also wants you to look just like that. So be careful that you do not neglect to meet his needs under any circumstances.
Home is the realm of women. A woman likes to see herself always on the throne of that kingdom. He thinks about this kingdom in his imagination, in his dreams, and in reality. Arranges, composes. Be very careful. Never go to break this blissful reign of your wife. He will not even attempt to dethrone him. You know what is the most displeasing thing to Allah Ta'ala?
to share something with him.
Yes, you are right. What is the most hated thing, even for a king?
interfering with someone else in his state.
Women want to have their husbands with all their heart and soul. Be careful, father! Don't forget to compare yourself to your wife's family. Don't sit with this unfair claim, 'Either choose me or your parents. You don't even think about it. If you force him to do so, he may be forced to accept. But a kind of latent disrespect for you will awaken in his tender heart.
You know, you have heard and read a lot that women were created from the curved bone of the arm (or clavicle).
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